The thing is, there’s a way to sext tactfully, and there’s…well, a boring way. Once she knows your goal is to make her feel good, and that you’re not just trying to get her to send you a nude selfie, she’ll get on board and start telling you all the ways she’s going to kiss you back. Really get into the juicy details of how wet your fingers will be, how long your lips will linger, and where, and how hard or soft your going to suck, lick, and kiss different parts of her body.

Don’t hesitate to tell her what you want her to do to you, but for the best success, follow her lead by suggesting what you’re going to do to her first. Once she knows your goal is to make her feel good, and that you’re not just trying to get her to send you a nude selfie, she’ll get on board and start telling you all the ways she’s going to kiss you back. Guys might only need a quick sexy photo to get turned on, but if you think of sexting like foreplay, it’ll really make her wet!

Speaking of nude photo’s, there’s a fine line between a tasteful shot and an unwelcome one. Really get into the juicy details of how wet your fingers will be, how long your lips will linger, and where, and how hard or soft your going to suck, lick, and kiss different parts of her body. Really get into the juicy details of how wet your fingers will be, how long your lips will linger, and where, and how hard or soft your going to suck, lick, and kiss different parts of her body.

Women get turned on with a sexting story of what you’re going to do to her, while guys are visual. Really get into the juicy details of how wet your fingers will be, how long your lips will linger, and where, and how hard or soft your going to suck, lick, and kiss different parts of her body. Trust me, if you take the effort to get into it, she’ll be extremely excited about coming home and making it a reality later.